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Wednesday, December 29, 2010

TIRAI 2010

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

Assalamu'alaikum w.b.t.

Tahun 2010 hampir melabuhkan tirainya... Ah~! terlalu banyak saya ingin kongsikan sebenarnya, namun benar-benar tidak kesempatan.

Ketuanan Melayu.....
Pilihanraya Kampus.....
Muhasabah 2010.....
dan segala macam buah fikiran ntahpape~

Bukanlah dek kerana urusan kerja yang tak berkesudahan~ cuma, cas-cas ion positif dan negatif yang kurang stabil dalam bendalir tubuh kebelakangan ini.

"Hatiku sakit, jiwaku cedera, urusanku tergendala...
Benar-benar keletihan..."

Jumaat~ pembuka lembaran 2010... jua penutup tirai 2010.

"Semoga lembaran 2011 membuka segala pintu rahmah buat hamba-hambaNYA yang sentiasa mendambakan keampunan dan keredhaanNYA."

Salam mesra, salam sayang
Salam ukhwah, salam perjuangan

Oh ya~ saya kembali kepada format asal... Rasanya ini lebih dekat dengan jiwa saya.
Selamat Tahun Baru 2011~!

Monday, December 6, 2010

Know Yourself - 'Workaholic?'

Bismillah wal hamdulillah...

I found this article and I think it suits for me and you too (maybe~ as for workers and you too - students) I chose it because I'm working too hard lately and it kills my private time. Argh~!

Hope you enjoy~ :)


You Might Be a Workaholic If...

It's a frequently asked question: Do we live to work, or work to live?

A growing number of Americans are finding that they live for work, and some of them are popping up at Workaholics Anonymous meetings nationwide. Unlike people who simply work very hard, which quite frankly is most of us, workaholics never punch out. They always feel like they are on the clock, 24/7, physically, mentally and emotionally working. They are more genuinely enthusiastic about work than anything else in their lives, even family and friends. There's nothing that person would rather be doing than working. And we're not just talking about Fortune 500 executives; nurses and construction workers, among others, attend Workaholics Anonymous meetings to try to kick the habit.

What Are the Trouble Signs?

If you're a workaholic, you can't stop thinking about work. Work issues distract you from relationships and those thoughts speed through your mind as you lie in bed at night. A part of you is always longing to get back to work. Nothing — not eating, socializing, sleeping — is as satisfying.

Here's a good way to think of it: An ordinary hard worker will be on the job, thinking about shopping with friends. A workaholic will be out shopping with friends, but will be thinking nonstop about work.

Workaholics are very controlling.

They can't delegate and are not usually interested in being team players. They are perfectionists and nothing is ever good enough for them. Workaholics would rather handle everything themselves, which doesn't always produce the necessary results because often we need the input and help of others.

A workaholic also has a troubled personal life.

Typically workaholics don't have many friends or hobbies. Their personal relationships are in disarray. They have difficulty with intimacy because work is always on their minds. And of course, there is a ripple effect in the families of workaholics. Research done by the University of North Carolina found that couples in a workaholic marriage tended to have twice the divorce rate as those who were in nonworkaholic marriages. We know that all marriages take work, but that's not the type of work that a workaholic wants to focus on.

Further, there is the effect on the children. Research has also found that children of workaholics have a higher rate of depression and anxiety mainly because that workaholic parent has placed severely high expectations on his or her kids, which links back to that desire for perfection. And there are health concerns for workaholics, caused by the extreme levels of stress they suffer. They often eat poorly, don't exercise, and in short, they take poor care of their physical and emotional well being.

Solutions to Kick the Habit

Like any addiction, it's challenging to kick and the person needs a support system to help. First, a workaholic must recognize and admit the problem. Take this quick personal survey: Ask yourself, on a scale of one to five — five being truly satisfied — how you'd rate your satisfaction and happiness in each of these key areas of your personal life: Your family? Your friendships? Your health? Your hobbies? Your spirituality?

If your total is not 12 or more points, you have to take a hard look at yourself. It's probably time to reconsider your priorities and to replace some of your work time with life time. On its Web site, Workaholics Anonymous suggests 20 questions to ask yourself to determine whether you may be a workaholic. Among them:

Do you take work with you to bed, on weekends and/or on vacation?

Is work the activity you like to do best and talk about most?

Have your family or friends given up expecting you on time?

Do you get impatient with people who have other priorities besides work?

Have your long hours hurt your family or other relationships?

Do you think about your work while driving, falling asleep or when others are talking?

Answering yes to one or two might not be the sign of an addiction, but a pattern of yes to three or more of these questions might mean it's time to make changes. But of course, with all addiction, making those changes is easier said than done.

Make time to relax.

Since workaholics are so detail oriented and focused, they should schedule time off to relax and play. Use this time to find new ways to find happiness and approval and satisfaction outside of work. Look for other benchmarks to measure your overall well-being such as achieving fulfilling personal relationships -- being a terrific, reliable partner, parent, and/or friend -- or even trying a new hobby that offers a complete diversion from work.

Learn to delegate.

Recognize that none of us can be successful or productive at work on our own. This is hard for these perfectionists, so they can start small, such as sharing small tasks with co-workers to start whether it's folding shirts in a retail store or managing the office staff. Slowly, the workaholic can see that he or she can begin to let go and still get the job done.

Additional resources:

"Chained to the Desk: A Guidebook for Workaholics, Their Partners and Children, and the Clinicians Who Treat Them," by therapist Bryan Robinson

Workaholics Anonymous Web site:

Tory Johnson is the workplace contributor on "Good Morning America" and the CEO of Women for Hire. Connect with her at

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Personally, you know what?
Muslims won't be a workaholic because we have our 'special moment' with Allah everyday~
The most exclusive time that nothing can interrupt.

Salam segunung muhibbah, selautan mawaddah
Beriringan buat kalian maghfirah dan rahmah Illahi

I don't think that I'm a workaholic...
Yes~! :)

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Bicara Mata Hati

Bismillah wal hamdulillah...

Bicara Allah, dengarkanlah

setiap hari pasti ada bicara Allah kepada kita.
ada yang halus, ada yang jelas.
tapi yang istimewanya bicara Allah ini, dengarnya bukan pada telinga.
tapi dengan hati...
aneh, tapi itulah caranya.
kerana itu surat cinta Allah kepada manusia, iaitu al Quran, perlu di'baca' dengan hati.


pernahkah anda tersepak batu?
sakitkan? boleh jadi lebam seminggu.
tapi tunggu!
mungkin ini salah satu bicara Allah kepadamu

"oh ya?"
tapi hati perlu terbuka, perlu peka...
kerana jika tidak, mungkin cuma sumpah seranah
atau keluhan, "aduh! sakit!" yang terpacul dari mulut kita
lihatlah, dan pandanglah dengan hati...
istighfar, mungkin ada dosa yang dibuat tanpa disedari

istighfar, mungkin ada kewajipan atau amanah yang tidak dilunasi
istighfar, mungkin...mungkin kita memang kurang mengingati-Nya pada hari ini!
kerana itu maka muncullah batu itu sebagai asbab
perantara bicara, kasih cinta, peringatan halus dari Yang Maha Kuasa.

pernahkah anda ditimpa bencana?
kehilangan harta benda, atau gagal mencapai cita-cita?
pasti terpendam rasa kecewa, seolah kelam seluruh dunia
tapi, ah! sekali lagi Allah ingin berbicara dengan kita
mengajak kembali menumpukan seluruh pengharapan
hanya kepada-Nya
membalikkan paradigma
kepada apa yang penting sebenarnya
istighfar... mungkin ada dosa walau sekecil mana yang menjadi batu penghalang kepada kejayaan kita
istighfar... mungkin ibadah yang masih kurang sempurna, lalu mencacatkan buku amalan kita
istighfar... mungkin ada sesuatu yang lebih baik menanti kita, cuma perlu tunggu, untuk seketika!

pernahkah anda dipuji
walaupun pada realiti, andalah manusia yang paling tidak layak disebut begini?
pada realiti, anda tahu, setiap kelemahan dan kejahatan yang tersembunyi
yang jika diketahui, mungkin tiada siapa mahu mendekati!
tapi halusnya bicara Allah
cantiknya bicara Allah...
Allah tahu, Allah tahu

setiap kelemahan, setiap kejahatan, setiap dosa, setiap detik hati, setiap prasangka
tapi Allah juga tahu, dan MAHU
supaya kamu berubah, kamu berhijrah
menjadi seperti apa yang diperkatakan, yang menjadi bahan pujian, oleh manusia tadi
menggunakan sepenuh potensi diri
istighfar... tapi jangan tertipu! di sini bicara syaitan juga akan cuba mempengaruhimu
membuatmu terdetik, "sungguh, akulah yang terbaik!"
istighfar... janganlah begitu! takut nanti mengundang penyakit demi penyakit (hati)
yang merosak terus amalanmu, akhirnya dirimu...

begitulah syaitan cuba merosakkan dirimu.

bicara Allah ada pada setiap kecantikan kelopak dan daun
yang tumbuh keluar setelah tiba musimnya
bicara Allah juga tergambar,
pada kanvas langit yang dihiasi bintang dan bulan di waktu malam
kepulan awan dan pelangi di waktu siang
bicara Allah juga tersebar,
di setiap urat saraf, pembuluh darah, tulang belulang
degup jantung, turun naik nafas...
hidup mati...
Dengarkah kita?

nukilan rasa

Salam segunung muhibbah, selautan mawaddah
Beriringan buat kalian maghfirah dan rahmah Illahi

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